Welcome to
YOUR
DATING CODES
ONLINE WORKSHOP
INSTANT ACCESS
Your Dating Codes helps you build the self-awareness most people only gain after years of trial and error.
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A 7-PART
CLARITY SYSTEM
that allows you to process your thoughts, your patterns, your fears, your boundaries, your readiness and what real connection looks like for you.
Welcome to
🧡
Your Dating
Codes
Workshop
The moment you whisper, “I cannot keep doing this,” is the moment this workshop is made for.
The moment you think, “Maybe I am better off staying by myself for now,” is when Your Dating Codes becomes necessary.
And the moment you admit, “Do I have dating issues… why does this keep happening?” is exactly where this workshop begins.
You know the truth that hovers in the back of your mind, the patterns you keep repeating, the people who feel exciting at first but somehow leave you feeling empty, the nearly situations that pull you in but never become anything real, the attachment that comes too fast and catches your breath, or the sudden avoidance that shows up the moment dating starts to feel too heavy for your mind.
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You cannot stop repeating what you cannot see.
A MORNING MENU
of 13 ACTIVTIVES
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A 7-Part
Clarity System
of written activities
You will learn a simple system that helps you understand what is happening in your mind before the chaos and rush of dating take over, so the complexity of it all becomes clearer and easier to navigate.
Instantly, you will know how to slow your thoughts just enough to see the truth, spot your patterns in real time and recognise when something is real, aligned or simply imagined.
You will enter dating with confidence, clarity and a sharper sense of what is right for you.
❌ No more unnecessary spirals.
❌ No more second-guessing what you want.
❌ No more doubting when things go wrong.
❌ No more group chats asking everyone’s opinion.
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Clarity turns dating into a choice, not chance.
The system that makes you feel clear & confident about dating
💭Maybe you keep meeting people who seem promising but leave you drained.
Maybe you have not dated in a while because it feels unsafe or pointless.
Maybe you have stepped away from dating because it feels like more effort than it is worth.
🟠 And yet…
Maybe you keep giving second chances, hoping it will turn into something real.
Maybe you want connection, but you no longer trust your own judgement. 💔
When you need our workshop the most
You have probably tried to rationalise your mind, but end up overthinking. You have probably tried to rationalise your mind, but end up overthinking.
👉 You do not need to keep blaming yourself when dating goes wrong.
👉 You do not need to pretend you are fine when confusion hits after seeing someone.
👉 You do not need to stay in situations that make your mind spiral.
What you need is a structure that meets you where you are -
a simple clarity system that helps you understand what is happening in your mind before the emotions take over, so you can date feeling confident, grounded and in control.
☀️A 7-Part Clarity System
The Dating Codes give you 7 clarity tools built around three mindsets that reveal what is happening in your mind before emotions start steering your choices.
🧡 Orange Codes™ – Vision & Attraction
For reconnecting with what you truly want and the energy that shapes who you choose and how you show up.
🟢 Green Codes™ – Alignment & Readiness
For understanding where you feel steady, what you need to grow, and how your values match your behaviour.
⚪ Grey Codes™ – Fears & Patterns
For identifying the fears, habits, and red flags that cloud your judgement and pull you into the same loops.
When advice isn’t enough, you need a system that steadies your thoughts
The Grid Society Dating Codes™ of 7 Clarity Tools that reset your dating mind
This workshop helps you understand what is happening in your mind before emotions take over so you stop spiralling, stop guessing, and start choosing from clarity. Wherever you are in dating, there is a code that meets you exactly where your thoughts get stuck.
🩶 If your mind spirals after meeting someone
You will learn how to face that feeling head-on, using calm reflection and guided writing to shift your mindset from self-doubt to gentle motivation.
💚If you feel unsure or not ready to date
You will learn how to understand your readiness clearly and check whether your values and behaviour match where you want to go.
🧡 If you feel excited but uncertain
You will learn how to tell the difference between alignment, chemistry and imagined connection so you can move forward with confidence.
By the end of the workshop, you will leave with a personal clarity map you can return to before, during and after dating.
Shape your morning with tools that meet you where you are
☀️ What's inside
1. 7 instructional videos. Clear guidance on how to complete each clarity tool.
2. 7 purpose videos. Why each tool matters and the moment it is designed for.
3. A full clarity workbook. Printable worksheets for all 7 tools so you can map your fears, patterns, standards and attraction codes on paper.
4. A Dating Codes overview video. How all 7 tools work together as a single clarity system.
5. The 3-mindset category breakdown.Clear teaching on the Orange, Green and Grey dating codes.
☀️Benefits:
1. Clarity before emotion. You will know what is happening in your mind before attraction or fear takes over
2. No more repeating the same situations. You will see your patterns clearly so you can choose differently.
3. Dating decisions that feel steady, not reactive. You will move with grounded confidence instead of spiralling through uncertainty.
4. Early recognition of what is real and what is imagined. You will stop wasting emotional energy on people who are not aligned.
5. A clear sense of your dating standards and readiness. You will know what you want, what you need and what you can no longer accept.
6. Emotional control in the moments that matter most. You will stay centred when texting, meeting someone new or deciding whether to continue.
What is
Included in your
Instant Access Online Workshop
Why our Instant Access system works for you
• Instant access the moment you purchase. Start immediately. No waiting. No dates.
• Self-paced learning. Move through the Dating Codes when your mind is ready.
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• Full video guidance. Clear, step-by-step instructions for every tool.
• Downloadable workbook with printable worksheets. Map your fears, patterns, standards and Orange Codes on paper. Use it again and again.
• Lifetime access. Revisit any tool whenever you need a reset or a clarity check.
• A private digital space. Log in anytime with all your videos and tools ready for you to continue your inner work.
• Access from any device. Mobile, tablet, ipad or laptop in whatever space you prefer to work.
The system that makes you feel clear & confident about dating
💚 Grid Society is a trusted UK and Dubai-based workshop provider delivering clear, practical mindset training that helps people think sharply, organise their inner world, and reset with intention.
We deliver in-person CPD workshops for counsellors, coaches and mental-health professionals, including CPCAB-endorsed training, and we run high-impact mindset and clarity workshops for organisations across the UK and Dubai. After growing demand from our community, we are now excited to offer our signature teaching through online instant-access workshops.
🧡 Grid Society is chosen by counsellors and trusted by industry professionals.
Who uses Grid Society? Counsellors & Coaches for themselves, Level 7 Counsellors and EMDR specialists for their clients, barristers and lawyers, Barristers who are King’s Counsel - UK, Content Creators in the UK and Dubai, the Counselling & Psychotherapy Training Academy (CPTA), Tower Hamlets College staff training days, Barking College counselling department, Activate Learning counsellors, the Institute of Management Accountants Dubai, and Women Who Thrive Dubai. To name a few.
Why people trust Grid Society
Credible. Proven. Experienced.
You cannot control every date.
But you can control how you show up to it.
Your Dating Codes™ give you a way to understand your mind before emotions take over, so you can date with clarity, confidence, and calm - no matter who you meet.
It is a simple but effective system that helps you recognise what is actually happening inside you, so you stop repeating old patterns and start choosing from a steady place.
When you date from clarity, you stop guessing your way through connection and start recognising what is right for you.
The Promise
💚🧡
A CLEARER WAY FORWARD
We are not gurus, mentors or motivators. We give you space and structure to find your own.
